The Village Upgrade

For cycle-breaking parents (and parents-to-be) who are tired of “business as usual” and long for “the village” that was meant to raise the next generation together. 

A 1:1 vision & clarity  session for parents (and parents-to-be) ready to receive more support, expand capacity, and give their children a legacy of community they are proud of

So you can go from…

  • Feeling like you’re the only one that can tackle the parental load… to having the dream team raising your kids WITH you 

  • Missing the types of friendships you had before kids… to having a network of friends thatfeel like family — aka super casual, be yourself, call-in-a-pinch kind of people 

  • Turning exclusively to your partner when you need extra support… to having a roster of people that support you in all of the ways you need your cup filled

  • Being completely depleted wishing you were more present for these fleeting days of childhood… to being resourced enough to really savor the moments that matter 

  • Burning the candle at both ends trying to do it all, be it all, know it all … to making space for other people to contribute to you so you can prioritize where you place your energy

You’re ready to reclaim the kind of community and support that is your birthright.

You’re done with the status quo that makes fun of parental burnout and isolation… and ready to be a part of a cultural change that models for your kids what it feels like to be held and to belong.

You know the band-aid solutions (like ‘wine o’clock’ to dull the pain… or continuing to ‘muscle through it’) are NOT in alignment with your values.

You’re ready for the kind of upgrade only “a village” could provide. 

Are you…

  • CURIOUS to discover how real “community” can enhance your overall experience of parenting - and life? 

  • DONE limiting the kind of help you deserve to receive because “other people have it harder than you”?

  • LONGING for the kinds of relationships you can count on — in the highs and lows? 

  • READY to give your children “a village” that will guide them, look out for them, and have their best interest in mind? 

What is Revillaging? What is meant by “the village?”

Revillaging is an ongoing practice of returning to a communal orientation — the way humans are naturally meant to organize and live. 

Revillaging understands that we need to create this communal orientation while both meeting the moment we’re in and disrupting the societal norms that currently keep us “doing it all ourselves”.  

“The Village” is a paradigm shift back to this communal orientation. It is born from relationship, intentionality, invitation, and receptivity. While we can draw on inspiration from different cultures or time periods (particularly those of our own lineages), we ultimately are creating “the village” from the pieces that we have right in front of us.

“The Village” can take many forms, but it includes proximity-based intergenerational relationships where reciprocal care is the new status quo.

Meet your guide, Emily Race-Newmark

Emily found herself on a revillaging path after feeling under-resourced in early motherhood.

Following the guidance of visionaries and leaders she had interviewed on This is How We Care, Emily saw a throughline that connected every single vision shared on the show:

We need community.

With this focus in mind, Emily began devoting her own life to “revillaging”: knowing that giving her children the inheritance of community was the best gift she could give them—and herself— even if it meant breaking through her own social anxiety along the way.

Emily weaves over 10 years of professional experience building corporate culture, coaching leaders, and developing teams, to now build neighborhood cultures, develop community leaders, and create experiences that connect.

She believes that we can be a village again and that by doing so, the multi-crises we face – from health, to political division, to mass-consumption and exploitation of earth’s resources— will shift for the better.