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You know you need “the village”.
You just don’t know how to make it happen — but I’m here to help.
You want to give your kids THE BEST.
You want to THRIVE in this chapter of your life.
You want to feel ALIVE with possibility, not drowning in the crises of our times.
I get it — it’s a lot to care so deeply.
Revillaging will help you thrive.
1:1 SESSIONSRevillage Your Life
For those ready to shift from “individual” to “villager”.
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“REVILLAGE YOUR LIFE” is a sacred 1:1 container to support you by:
Devoting space to you and your “village vision”
Focusing your resources on what truly matters
Identifying where you may be sabotaging what your want
Grounding you in practices for magic, nourishment and ease
Rewiring programming of individualism and forceful efforting
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This is for you if you are:
Feeling depleted (and maybe a little resentful) from doing so much yourself
Longing for deeper connections with people who “get it”, but are unsure how to create them (or where to find the time)
Craving support that’s relational, reciprocal, and easy
Wanting “the best” for your kids, but struggle to trust others to do it the ‘right way’
Aware of the need for community, but feel under resourced in creating yours
Tired of putting yourself on the back burner (martyrdom in the name of “care”)
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In investing in this time together, something magical will happen:
Your life will get a shake up.
Struggled to take time for yourself before? Time to look at why.
Caught in a loop of “I’ll do it myself?” Time to receive support.
Fixated on problems? Time to orient to possibility.
You CAN have the support, connection, purpose, ease, fulfillment, and joy you want in your parenting.
You CAN give your children the legacy of meaningful community — and receive from this, too.
You just CAN’T have those things… without doing something different first.
If you’ve struggled to make changes on your own, it’s not a personal failing.
We’re meant to have support in the transitions of our life.
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By the end of our time together you will have:
Clarity on a “village vision” that is deeply meaningful to you — without the “yeah buts” that block your true desires
A personalized “revillaging roadmap” that feeds this vision, focuses your energy, and turns “to dos” into nourishing experiments
Sustainable practices that work with your natural rhythms and feed your inner villager
That “YES! MORE PLEASE!” feeling coming from having the village you want here now
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Imagine THIS…
You wake up and know who to call when you need help in a pinch
You have predictable rhythms of support so you can relax into what you need
You have 2–3 local allies who genuinely care for your kids (and feel like family)
You move through your days with rhythms that soothe, not stress
You feel fulfilled by the experience of being connected to something bigger
You can truly enjoy this short chapter of early parenting — because you’re not alone anymore
If that doesn’t speak to you — let’s create a vision that does.
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“Emily transformed the relationship that I have with myself, my future children, my friends, and my community. When we started working together, I knew that I wanted to raise my kids in a supportive village but I had no idea what that meant. I felt scared and overwhelmed about becoming a parent. Emily provided me with expert guidance to craft my own vision of a village and probe the underlying beliefs and assumptions that prevented me from making that vision a reality. She has a wealth of knowledge and asks the perfect questions. She is brilliant at stepping between the strategic and tactical, as well as the logistical and emotional, elements of village-building. Because of Emily's coaching, I am fully confident and excited to live out my vision of village, community, and family.” - SL
“I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect when I decided to invest in Emily’s coaching and work with her as my revillaging coach. What I did know was this: I was pregnant with my third child and deeply committed to doing postpartum differently this time. I wanted to feel held and supported. I wanted peace instead of survival. I wanted relationships to feel reciprocal, nourishing, alive. I wanted to understand my own role in the village. Through my work with Emily, I found answers to all of that, and somehow, so much more.
I cannot recommend working with Emily enough, whether you are pregnant, postpartum, preparing for pregnancy, or simply longing for deeper connection and support in your life. I also believe her work is profoundly valuable for aunties, uncles, cousins, and all the core roles that make a village whole. Learning how to support parents, and each other, offers a deep sense of purpose that so many of us are craving. Emily’s work has the power to change lives, and I don’t say that lightly. Thank you, Emily, for the way you hold this work, and for the way you held me.” — LR
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This is a space to resource the revillagers.
To keep our visions for the village alive and to tend to their possibility
To nourish you so you can give to your community with a full cup
To build relationships with other revillagers, sharing learnings and wisdom
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A “third space” describes those social environments outside of “home” and “work” — where we connect, build relationships, and foster a sense of community.
A “third space” is also “a place, either physical or mental, where participation and resistance to the dominant structures of society can occur.” — Jenny Odell, author of “How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy”.
Inspired by these possibilities, "The Third Space” is a place of experimentation: through play, practice & prayer, so we may awaken “a village orientation” in our own zip codes.
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Inside “The Third Space” you’ll find:
Monthly “Village Practice” calls - to explore revillaging practices and tools (i.e. communication skills, nervous system care, grief, reimagining economies, etc.)
Monthly “Village Hearth” calls - to share our village visions and what needs tending
A Living Library of growing resources - from pre-recorded workshops, to reading, podcast and practices that can support your revillaging path
Sharing Spaces - for posing questions, passing on wisdom, highlighting case studies, amplifying prayers, supporting and learning from one another
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Your participation in this space will give you:
Increased capacity to show up for your own community
Clarity and awareness on where to focus your revillaging efforts (in ways that are nourishing for you)
Accountability to your village vision through the group practice spaces
Time, money and energy saved from learning from other people’s experiments and practices
Connection with other revillagers who share desire and vision for village
Support via mentorship, coaching and kinship to help you if challenges in revillaging arise
communityThe Third Space
A virtual space that feeds your relationships IRL.
Excited about Revillaging but not ready to take this leap?Check out the Revillaging Playbook
This FREE 20-page ebook shares stories, frameworks, prompts, and practices to support you in your revillaging journey — at your own pace.
(For more support: add on the Companion Guide, where I walk through this entire Playbook in a mini-workshop format).
YOU'RE NOT ALONE IN WANTING MORE FROM YOUR FRIENDSHIPS.“How to Make Friends as an Adult”
is a FREE printable workbook for those longing for MORE from their friendships, but feel aren’t sure “what you’re missing”.
“This worksheet is FABULOUS and I want to come back to it in a few months to see what's the same and what's shifted for me. I had several "lightbulb" moments working through it. Thank you so much for sharing this!” — CV
not sure where to start? Book a free discovery call
Get your questions answered and share with me where you’re at. I’ll reflect back what I’m hearing to clarify what might be the best next step for you— whether that’s working together or not.
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Want to hear about my own revillaging journey?
Revillaging didn’t always come naturally to me — and I’m still on the path myself.
I share openly about my own revillaging experiments because I’m not “above you”, I’m “with you”.